An Important Clarification

I think it was clear in my last post, but possibly not so I want to add it here.  I don't believe Anna, Jane, or Mary in the situation below to be bad people in any way shape or form.  I don't want it to come across like poor Anna, if only Jane and/or Mary did their duty as Mormons and friends then everything would be ok.  It's not like that.  People react to situations differently and I just wanted to address some thinking that seems to be prevalent in this culture.  

Thanks, all.  Also I certainly appreciate the thoughtful comments that have already been left on the previous post.